Sunday, December 12, 2010

Changing Skies

[caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="490" caption="© 2010 Salil Lawande Photography"]Changing Skies[/caption]

 


I wonder as innumerable people change under the changing skies,


Countless stories of love, lust and betrayal are constructed with good lies.


What may come of the stories as fate unfurls,


Make or break beliefs as hearts overcome the crazy curls.


All seems tangled and no hope dawns,


They talk to the unseen and blame the fortune's pawns.


Life moves as time heals the wounds and erases the lessons,


Making all the same and ready for more possessions.


They come back to the loop to attach and ignore the worst,


Leaving self unprepared for the untimely change to dust.


And so on the lives dwell under the changing skies,


Forgetting the simple lessons from the hard times.


Infinitely ignoring the truth and the storytellers


They make fun and seek illusion from marketers and sellers.


All it takes is a pray to self to never to lament,


A talk to self to walk the path unstrung, with no attachment.


If all may be taken away forever not to return,


Not a part of self shall sway and succumb.


Teach to love one's life's every part making it grow,


Learn life's lesson and share it to make the creed grow.


Be it happiness, Be it Sadness, hope to be the same,


Have a will to continue with a mind detached and sane.


Have the soul that talks, and fights the lies,


Make a soul that shows the paths under the changing skies.


 




Credits: Picture -- © 2010 Salil Lawande Photography, Poem Idea -- Teachings of Seneca



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, October 22, 2010

Achievements and Countrymen

Don't be proud at achievements of your countrymen. They achieved doing what they love.

Be proud of what you do and what you want to achieve. What others achieve are their aspirations.

Follow your own aspirations and do it for the love of doing.

To me, the achievers are not countrymen - but just fellow human.

Patriotism in "Doing it for the country" is a marketed term.

Next time you getup, don't pride for your countrymen, but respect the achiever.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Monday, September 27, 2010

Afterlife

Entering the doors of afterlife is a norm.

A fact of the world left untalked.

After a beloved leaves the life to enter peace.

Time goes on, but familiar whispers, footsteps are missed,

And the good of the foregone stays ripe in the mind.

All say ill speaking of the past in the room is a crime.

Irony that the one who was present craved for praise.

When he is past, the talks in mass are good in all place.

The bad is buried or burnt with the flesh.

The irony is the good talk that stays afresh.

Baffling are the critical talks as norm in life.

Be it who, time is ready at back with knives.

Hard is to get a praise for good when living.

Talk of good would've avoided the slept from sleeping.

One of humanity's irrational reasons.

Making truth bad and honest in treason.

What's the relevance when none knows the soul.

What do good words do for the indestructible soul.

A soul with no emotions shines as a light.

As it hears the redundant lies.

As it passes it speaks to self in strife.

More will mean when the good is spoken in life.

Happy could be many and may still not be in afterlife.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

An Emotional Democracy

All businesses function on decision making during all projects and operations. Similarly, a functional government makes decisions in every department. The decisions may be made at a snail’s pace or be biased, but they are made. And, data is the basis of all decisions – in a government or in a business. A government bureaucrat can make decisions based on social data that he has. Alternatively, he can bias the decisions towards the pile of currency that presents itself on his table, which in this case is based on the bribe. So, decisions are also based on the data – be it actual or bribe.

The bribe-based decision-making model is a norm in almost all government departments. Consequently, almost all electoral candidates have an incentive of easy money when they contest the elections. However, we the people, who are indirectly responsible for selecting almost every major government official, have no literal, visible, and guaranteed incentive presented to us – when we vote. In addition, majority of the society still bases its decisions on emotional incentives and not data. For example, a green grocer in any village will keep an apposite profit-loss account for all his transactions irrespective of his educational qualification. If you visit him and bargain hard for a grocery, be assured that he will not agree to a deal that compromises his profit margins. However, the same vendor, who is a shrewd business man, will make emotional decisions and vote for a representative belonging to his own:

  1. Religion,

  2. Caste, and

  3. Community


I have numbered the green grocers’ decision making criteria because he will filter the candidates – first for their religion, next for their caste, and finally for their community.

The grocer’s case applies to a major part of the population, even in the metro cities. Most people will make their personal business decisions shrewdly, but will make emotional decisions while voting. What such people need to realize is that the policies defined by the emotionally-selected candidates will directly impact our businesses, lives, and standard of society.

If a political candidate does not think beyond the welfare of one particular section, then that person is certainly unreliable and is least likely to fulfil his promises. Let’s assume that the candidate fulfils the pre-election promises for your community. As a result, it will widen the gap between your community and other sections in the society. Consequently, it will lead to divisions in the society as a whole. So, why is the case that emotional decisions are not made by most in business, but are blindly adopted in democratic voting? In addition, why are shrewd decisions overlooked while voting when the electorate will directly impact your business?

Well, it is because being human is being emotional. And, society as a whole is more emotional than us as individuals. Politicos have realized this fact and are selling emotions, and the society is buying the emotions being sold. So, we the people are not making shrewd, business-like, decisions, but are making emotional decisions to select the people who govern our country. As a result, we need to overcome our underlying attachment to people from our community and select candidates based on their forte.

From where do I get the data?

If you are wondering – from where do I get the data to make my decisions? I have two sources. First is the Internet and the next is the Media.

The Internet

The Internet has closed the information gap that existed in the past, when a lot of information was available to a select few. With the Internet, information asymmetry is rapidly beginning to disappear. Even in democracy, Internet is beginning to play its role. During every election, several sites post information about all candidates, which you can leverage and select the best candidate.

The Media

I can’t imagine most farmers in remote villages browsing the Internet, at least not in the present age. However, I am sure that most farmers will have access to either T.V. or a news paper. Hence, in a country like India, where most of the population still resides in villages, media is more important than the Internet. Therefore, the role of media is most important in a democracy as it provides the major part of society with the all important – DATA to make decisions. Hence, it is important that the media is neutral and is free of bias. As a result, we don’t need channels that showcase mystical charms of some self-proclaimed saint or horror stories of never-seen ghosts during prime time.

We need a media that is responsible and showcases important issues that affect governance and democratic operations. However, due to commercial obligations, they need to present some marketable shows or articles, but we have the option to select the channel we see or the news paper we read. So, just like you prune your business projects, filter the source of information.

The Eternal Excuse – No Candidate is Good

In most cases, you may not have any qualified candidate to select during elections. So, just don’t sit at home in regret. Register your protest by leveraging the rule 49-O, which allows you to declare that you did not find any candidate suitable for your vote. And again, don’t sit at home after registering your displeasure. Join some NGO and try to make a difference.

In addition, don’t just give charity. You cannot sign a check and think you have done something for the society. The cash drawn with the check may never reach its beneficiary. Spend some time in an orphanage, teach the under-privileged on your weekends, or just pay a visit to an old-age home. Your time and company will be more valuable than your checks. So, ACT MORE and SIGN LESS.

An Emotional Independence

Independence to me is beyond the ‘Happy Independence Day’ text messages and social networking updates. There is an emotional energy and motivation that guides me to improve, learn, teach, and be honest in an independent society. I am emotional for mine and nation’s independence, which was earned through sacrifices of selfless acts of heroism. All those who fought for the freedom were emotional for freedom, but were prudent, honest, and selfless to the core. Be emotional for them and those who are making the world a better place and avoid sentiments for those selling religion-caste-community-based emotions.

Be the business man of democracy who makes shrewd decisions to select candidates. Be a CEO who treats his vote as an investment on behalf of the society and not a charity.

Saturday, July 24, 2010

An Accident

A man lies on the road & red is the pavement beside him.

He lies still and his vehicle's wheels, though moving, go nowhere.

His latest gizmos,a cell phone an an iPod lie beside him.

His worth, a wallet, with three plastic money sources peeps out of his pocket.

Fifteen  minutes pass.

Once he could move, but now he's still there.

Things he owned, that were immobile, have suddenly disappeared & things that disappeared, are valued more.

Sadly,that's your worth, and that's how most value others.

Sadly, the value of human lives is no longer - the life, but what material stuff we gather.

Thursday, May 6, 2010

If I Were - Learning From All

If I were a bird, I'd be high above all,


See the world beautiful as all seems small.


Stay up above and safe to be moral,


Away from the dominant as they are frugal.



If I were an ant, I'd focus open hearted,


Have no excuses for doing what's demanded.


I'll work together with no thoughts of results,


Follow lord's words to forego material results.



If I were a fish, I'd float in the waters,


Swim across the blues in the untouched corners.


Hidden from earthly who can't breathe under,


Live freely off the blues and safe from proachers.



If I were a cow, I'd be a symbol of giving,


Share what I have without beholding.


Be alive or dead I'd help unconditionally,


Live by the words to give and live peacefully.



But I am a human and wisest of all,


With a possessed hobby to own them all.


Have the brains to invent stuff of own,


My limits to self are left unknown.



Dominance leads my way to live,


Everything I do is own but give.


Competing lives give me the thrills,


It's easy to lie to win and have no frills.



They teach a lot if we care to see,


Un-owned creatures just roam free,


They are themselves and perform their role,


After all, we are wise and chose not to learn – but ignore them all.

Friday, April 23, 2010

Who We Are

I have made this video to showcase how small we are when compared to other species. Share it and spread the message - we share the earth, not own it, it is our duty to conserve and protect earth.






We share the earth but not we own,


With many others, in the unknown.


A beautiful world, is in what they live,


Consuming it, is what we give.


We are dots in front of them,


Owning Earth is our claim.


Eating fast the green patches,


Parasites' and we have matches.


Make a vow to to fight for green,


Never waver to keep earth clean.


Be the person to bring the change,


May be small but attempt is main.


Make our world a better place,


Love all creatures whatever their name.


We have forgotten that we share this planet with innumerable creatures. The planet is not ours, but we share it with many other beautiful and enchanting species.

The next generation will surely not see most species that we have been lucky enough to see. For the future generation, most wonderful creatures will move on the electronic screens and not in the jungle and wild.

On this Earth Day, make a vow to fight for earth and conserve it. Do your bit for earth.





Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Higher Self

View from Kamandurg


There live the spirits of the great sages,


The higher altitudes are some unexplored places.


Higher are places where life is pure and simple,


The places where the urban is a cripple.


To reach the high we term adventure,


For we the urban wish to be greater.


Tired with lives we seek the mountains,


Unlike other creatures who solace in their dens.


We run away to seek the higher purity,


For the highs remain untouched by our cruelty.


The highs will not accept our dependent forms,


It's to guard its purity against our crippled mourns.


Struggle physically as we climb,


Consequence though is a cleaner mind.


The cripple inside struggles to live,


As we climb and become more free.


It breathes heavy wanting to stop,


Reminding us comforts if we drop.


Fight we must such evils within,


For we breed them beneath our skin.


Living off modernity we are disabled,


Pampered with comfort we turn in to crippled.


A higher self wakes as we climb,


Outside is sweat, within a cleaner mind.


Thoughts tell to fight the evil within,


Search the soul and clean the sin.


Weakness called comfort makes us quit,


The soul which is pure makes us grit.


Fight we must to conquer the evils inside,


A higher self gives it no place to hide.


Higher  up lives the purity untouched,


As did the sages of the past discovered.


The holy highs feed the mind,


Teach our spirits to never subside.


A spiritual experience truly it must be,


Not the feel of fun the evil plans it to be.


Arms are raised with thoughts of victory,


Thoughts to boast to every human we see.


Preach not your deeds for they can be evil,


But preach the stratagem that killed the evil.


Follow you may what the greats preach,


But fail not to mix it with what spirits teach.


Learn it through not materialistic words,


But read it through the great scriptures.


Need not search for a material teacher,


For your soul is your own preacher.


Cleansed with the climb the soul conquers,


Helping you stop evils from being your rulers.


Live your life as you are high,


For high is nearer the lord's might.


Cleaner you become and must return,


For a cleaner you will make an angelic urn.


Nature on the highs gives you much,


Pay it back is what you must.


Teach and preach to give love to all,


For the hatred within makes us fall.


Aid others to conquer and succeed,


And you shall have helped your breed.


Loving others is your payback to nature,


Guarantee that higher heavens will call back in future.


Words are mine but learned from nature,


Sharing my learning with my fellow critter.


Doing my bit through these words,


Spreading the teachings from the higher worlds.


All faiths originate from the highs,


May not be through gods',


but thoughts of pure and high minds.


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Attempt to wrote a poem on how the mountains cleanse our soul and how trekking can be a spiritual experience. Wrote this during the bus journey from Mumbai to Pune.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Who Is Wild?

A poem comparing the wild, specifically tiger, to the human race. Written with heart and least wisdom of words.


Tiger Sire


Tiger sire you sure do kill,


But just to give your stomach a fill.


We humans kill for fun,


Looking for reasons all but one.


Be it oil or envy,


We can’t love if someone’s free.


We draw the borders for no need,


Then fight over with hearts of greed.


Tiger sire you protect your land,


We do the same for no reason at hand.


Guarding food is your aim,


Feeding pride is our game.


Tiger sire we call you wild,


But I look at us with a perplexed mind.


You treat tigers all the same,


We treat us based on race.


Be it color or the speech,


Our differences find no breach.


Tiger sire you don’t have god,


We have many and lose our thoughts.


We preach god and fake love,


With love for self placed all above.


Your life knows forests and the wild,


We have nations where patriots die.


When nation unites but not divide,


We split states far and wide.


Tiger sire if you adore,


None stops you from your love.


We have race, religion, and name,


When those don’t suffice we call fame.


Love for us needs approvals,


We call the family and the preachers.


Tiger sire you have rules,


We claim them but follow the fools.


Fighting and dividing is our need,


Humanity is a word in thesaurus’ feed.


We call us human and you the wild,


But I baffle with a puzzled mind.


A brave thought I do write,


Wild is humane and we the wild.


I lose my life for my race,


There’s helplessness on my face.


The more I think I hate em further,


Me with humans just talk and chatter.


We claim to speak as our right,


No actions from rulers our plight.


I say this not for prose,


But with a heart lost for words.


Wild and its beings are life,


We all are just urban termites.

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Migration

This is not a poem, but some lines of analogy

Herd

Just like one wildbeest in its herd of millions, you move with your race.

There are places that you go to, but are surrounded by walls of limbs.

Views are obstructed, landscapes hidden.

Bodies swarm over you, and time passes you by.

Head is down and you march ahead, your eyes see a monotonous view.

Nothing seems new in life, you visit places but don't see them.

You move in a herd, so live like a wildbeest.

Find a solution is what you say.

Here I tell you what is my way.

Break free to see the land, run away to feel the breeze.

Shout loud to be heard, make haste to the land of dreams.

Move out from the haven of herd, fight predators with the will of god.

If you survive you will live,

If you don't you would have lived.

Migrate to greener pastures, not hidden within the herd but in the front flying high.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Time to Celebrate or Pollute?

The exuberance and excitement of festivals approaching is common for all of us. The adrenaline pumps as we are in a haste to ensure everything is up-to-date. You don’t want to miss out on any excitement. Be it buying the stickiest Holi color or the loudest cracker for Diwali, you want to enjoy to the fullest. However, in the fun of festivities, you ruin the environment. Here is a fictional story, through the eyes of a 12-year old boy, about how improper inheritance of celebrating festivals is harming our environment. If you’ve had enough of save-the-world talk, then also read. May be, you will like the story and share it with someone.

This is my first fiction write-up. I have tried to use the story to convey a message about controlling pollution. I hope you like it.

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Festivals, I don’t know or celebrate much in the family. For all that I experience in festivals is a tense household. Baba comes home from work tired, frustrated, and drunk. His irate behavior during major festivals, Holi and Diwali, has annoyed us for years. All families in the Chawl seemed to enjoy the festivities with smiles, fireworks, colors, and happiness. In our house, there are fireworks, not literal fireworks, but fireworks emanating from the arguments between my parents. At times, I’ve witnessed fist fights between them. And I must admire my mom’s fighting capabilities as she manages to sedate Baba while he is drunk to the core. Otherwise, it’s the male strength that rules the household.

I am mighty scared from my father while he is drunk. However, a sober dad is a sweetheart and has been mighty lovable. He has been especially nice on mine and Didi’s birthdays. I still remember my 8th birthday when he took us out for dinner at the Zunka Bhakar Hotel on Chowpati. We had wonderful Pav Bhaji and my gift for the night was a large balloon and a key-operated car. I still have the car, although I broke its windshield within two days of my ownership.

Coming to the present, things were pretty tense as Holi was nearing and Baba had been coming home drunk. Fortunately, there were no fights, but I could see it starting any minute in the evening. I feel that the cause of Baba’s worry is not Holi, but - finance.

He was fired by Modern Housing Society, his previous employer two months back. He was unemployed for 60 days, which is an eternity for weekly-wage workers like Baba. Our bank savings of approximately Rs. 2000 is spent. However, thankfully, he was recruited in a new society last week.

It was my 12th birthday last week and it overlapped with Holi. My celebration or gift expectancy for this year was very low. And I would not force the issue with my parents as I know they are already strifed.

However, unexpectedly, two days before holi, Baba called and asked what I want this birthday. He said, “I cannot guarantee a gift tomorrow, but after two days I will get you a present. I expect some bakshis (festival bonus) from the society residents where I work. I will use that to get you a birthday present. I know you are my sweetheart and will not demand something that is out of my reach.” I was overwhelmed by the gesture. But, I could smell alcohol. Suddenly my excitement faded away. A drunken Baba scares me more than the Witch in my dreams, who apparently looks like my school principal. He sat in the passage outside our Kholi and had a Soda bottle, Whiskey, and a glass labeled Bagpiper placed on the floor. He had his back to the wall and I had kneeled down to talk with him. The strong alcohol smell emanating from his breathe made me a bit numb. I didn’t reply to his question for few minutes. All I could hear was the song Dhagala Lagli Kala played on a loudspeaker in the Chawl’s courtyard.

Baba asked again, “Tell me what you want as a birthday present?” I flashed back to the present. I mustered some courage and asked for something intangible. I said, “Baba, I want to spend a day with you while you go to work on Holi.” I don’t know how I asked such a favor/present. I think that I surprised myself more than Baba. But my aim was simple – investigating why is Baba so irate after work on Holi and Diwali. I could see the initial surprise in Baba’s eyes and later some distress. However, I didn’t notice anything aggressive, so I sat down from the kneeled posture. Baba looked down, and pondered hard about my request. He poured some soda in the glass and then some whiskey. He took a couple of sips from the glass. As he sipped alcohol, I stared at the bubbles fizzling in the glass. I have always liked to observe the bubble fizzles in Baba’s alcohol or in cold drinks. So, again I was moved away from the present. While I stared at the bubbles, Baba’s words brought me back to the present discussion. He just said – “Be ready at 12 noon on your Birthday. I don’t have an office to show you like the sahibs in the building, but I hope the visit will help you to understand why I want you to study and how much I work to keep my family.”

You must be wondering what his profession is. Well, I don’t have any regrets in telling that he is a cleaner. Popularly folks from his profession are referred to with a different title, which I shall reveal in some time.

An additional source of income for us was the daily-waged garbage pickup assignments given by the local municipal corporation. However, as Jadhav Saahib lost the municipal elections 3 months back, even that employment was snatched from Baba. The new Saahib, who won the election, is from a party that Baba tells works well for some minority, but ignores us. I am too young to understand why it is so, Baba says.

Well, it was the D-day and I was ready to go out with Baba. We walked 45 minutes to reach the society where Baba worked. Thankfully, the weather was overcast and it helped me keep pace with Baba. The society had a gigantic entrance gate with neatly-dressed security guards patrolling the visitors. Baba introduced me to them and said that I stood first in my class. They were impressed and wished us Happy Holi. One of them also gave me a Peda, which I accepted after Baba signaled his approval.

The garden in the building is more impressive than the gate. It has a plush lawn with grass and neatly-cut bushes on the side. However, the grass lawn’s splendor was spoiled by loads of shabby plastic bags (used as water balloons), and color. I had seen such scenes after Holi in the Chawl, but they never bothered me as the Chawl was mostly untidy. Consequently, more shabbiness in a dirty place never irked me like the way I was disturbed on observing this campus. I again went into the world of my thoughts. I came back to the present when Baba asked me to sit on a bench. Baba went away and brought the broom and dustbin to clean the lawn.

It took him an hour to collect the plastic bags from the lawn. He sat next to me after picking up the plastic bags and showed me the garbage bin. It was full to the brim with plastic. I kept staring at the bin and again visited my thoughts that took me to a classroom session on pollution. I could see and hear my teacher speaking in her authoritative tone – “Kids, don’t use plastic bags. Plastic is slowly eating our wonderful earth. See this plastic demon on the chart. It is gobbling up the fertile land from where you get your favorite vegetables. In addition, cows and cattles also eat plastic bags and die. Even marine life is in danger due to the plastic demon. Don’t you like to drink milk? I am sure many of you also like to eat fish. However, if we all continue to use plastic, we could soon have a day when you will not have milk to drink or fish to eat.”

I got darn scared on this note as I love, both, Milk and Fish. Milk was a luxury at my home, but when I got it, I slept well. And Maa cooks really good Fish. So, I don’t want a time when I cannot consume either Fish or Milk. I have never liked Vegetables much, so fear of losing Veggies didn’t scare me much. However, my Didi loves Vegetables, so I would like even Veggies to stay for her.

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The teacher continued, “See the chart again. The world’s present plastic consumption is 100 million tonnes. That is, 1,000,000,00 tonnes. Where 1 tonne is equal to 1000 Kilogram.” We were all awed by these numbers. I am sure, like me, no one could imagine how much these numbers meant, but they seemed to be large numbers just for great amount of weight they referred to. And, my fear of losing Milk and Fishes forever worried me more. The teacher added, “No one is sure how long does plastic takes to degrade, but some say that it will take 1000 years to degrade.”

As I sit on the bench, I recall the horror of losing two of my favorite edible items. I also recall some facts about plastic displayed on the chart.

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I hear Baba ask, “Why are you staring at the plastic bags? Scared by the amount of work I do on Holi?” I say nothing, but nod. Baba assumes that I am scared by the amount of work for Baba on Holi. However, my real worry is – How to stop such an amount of plastic going into some Cattle’s or Fish’s stomach? I may be greedy as I aim to protect my food chain, but in the process I am helping mother Earth. As I think it over, Baba stretches his back, goes into a store room and comes back with another, large garbage bin.

He asks me to follow him into the building. As we reach the first storey, Baba rings the bells of all the apartments in a hurry. I see one kid, of approximately my age, open the door and call his mother, “Maa, Kachra Waala aa gaya.” Literally, this means, Garbage Vendor has come. I was shocked by this reference to my Baba. I had grown up attaching the Waala verb to vendors. For example, Ice Cream Waala to refer to sellers of ice cream or Sabji Waala to refer to Grocery vendors. As per my understanding, Waala is associated with the supplier of some tangible goods. So, as my Baba supplied cleanliness and hygiene, he should be referred to as Safai Waala or Cleanliness Vendor. Baba seemed unperturbed by this reference. He collected the garbage from all households, picked up more plastic bags and plastic balloons lying in the stairs, and moved on to the next storey.

First, the plastic heap and then the humiliating reference to my Baba. I had already had a bad day at Baba’s office. I wanted to run away, but stayed on to face more like a brave soldier.

Before we moved up, Baba asked folks from each apartment to keep a bucket full of water outside their flat. I wondered why he needed the water. Does he plan to play Holi with me or the owners at a later stage? In either case, why a bucket full of water from each apartment? The story repeated on consecutive levels of the building. Baba was referred to with the same title and I kept getting irked.

When we were through with the chore on the highest level, Baba spilled the water buckets and I jumped up as I tried to avoid the water. I was surprised!

Now, in the seven storey building, there were four apartments at each level. And, we spilled 28 buckets of water to clean the building’s stairs. As per the water consumption of my family in the Chawl, 28 buckets of water will suffice for 5-days. So much water enables us to perform our chores with ease. At one point, I was tempted to ask Baba to take away couple of buckets of water to our Kholi. But, I resisted the temptation. On most days, we received 4-6 buckets of water at 5 AM. Maa gets up to stock water supply before the tap runs dry.

It took Baba approximately 5 hours to clean the Holi mess in the society. At the end of it, we had 4 bins of plastic balloons and 3 bins full of household waste.

Baba and I kept talking about why Baba gets frustrated on Holis. The answer was clear – too much work and a tired body. However, my cause of worry was not a tired Baba, but the concern – how to protect my food supply? I may be too young to understand the gravity of climate change, which teacher keeps preaching about. However, I really understand the threat to my food chain. So, these plastic bags really haunted me more than a drunk Baba or the school principal’s look-alike Witch from my dreams.

I walk with Baba as he leads me to a large Garbage Bin located on the street outside the building. However, my concern about the plastic bags still rules my mind. I was lost in my thoughts and Baba was about to empty the bin full of plastic balloons - when I recalled the magic word – RECYCLE.

I held Baba’s hand with authority and said – STOP. Baba was surprised. I got scared as I expected Baba to hit me for interfering in his work. Before he reacted, I said, “Baba, these Bags could help us earn some money.” He exclaimed, “How?”

I explained him, as per my teacher‘s lecture, about recycling units that buy used plastic and recycle. I tried my best to convince Baba to give it a try. However, all seemed to go in vain as he seemed ignorant and couldn’t believe that someone could pay for such useless plastic. So, as it happens in adolescence, when you want something from your parents, but don’t seem to get it – you are accompanied by tears. Baba couldn’t see me weep on my birthday, so he agreed to give recycling a try. I told Baba the address of the recycling unit in our locality. I recollected it from my school lecture. Baba requested one of the security guards to accompany us to the unit and carry a container filled with plastic bags.

We reached the unit and sold the bags for Rs 20, which is not a large amount, but was good enough for an ice cream that Baba bought me. I was satisfied by doing my bit for the environment and securing my food chain. While eating ice cream in a garden, Baba asked me why was I adamant to recycle. I patiently explained him about pollution and my fear of losing milk and fish. I tried to be as authoritative as my teacher, but couldn’t. At the end of the story, as I lick the ice cream, I see that Baba is proud of me and my thinking. He smiles and I see that his eyes are moist. He doesn’t say anything, but just looks at me, smiles, and at the end, moves his hand over my hair. He had never done a gesture like this. It really felt good.

As we walked back, I confirmed with Baba whether his frustration on Holi was due to extra work? His response was yes. I let my inquisitive behavior ask one more question – Is this the same reason you dislike Diwali? His response was cold that left me blue – “Your Aaji (granny) had an Asthma attack on the eve of Diwali when you were not born. The attack was due to the smoke emanating from the extensive fireworks in the Chawl. She couldn’t survive the attack.”

We reached home and on my request, Baba didn’t buy his dose of Alcohol. He decided to relax with a cup of tea. Maa was pleasantly surprised to see a cheerful Baba. We sat outside our Kholi and had some tea and Kanda Pohe that Maa had cooked. It was 5 PM. The sun’s rays were warm but comforting as they kissed our floor. I sat there and saw the sun lowering in the sky. I felt satisfied at the end of the day. But, I am still concerned about how we have made our festivals a danger for many lives. I am just a kid and can think about pollution. I hope grownups also start to protect our food chain and the world. I will request my teacher to take lectures on pollution for all adults in my Chawl. I hope it will help us to protect the world in a small way.

Some tips to reduce pollution:

  • Use traditional clothe bags to buy groceries

  • Use steel bottles to drink water in office

  • Switch-off monitors while you move away from your desk

  • Avoid using plastic bags or bottles

  • Use more fans and avoid Air Conditioners

  • Cycle to work if possible

  • Maintain personal hygiene so that clothes don’t get dirty

  • Spill less water

  • Celebrate Diwali with minimal fireworks

  • Celebrate Holi with natural colors, less water, and NO PLASTIC

  • Use Handkerchief instead of tissue papers


Also, see the following video from www.ted.com:







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Sunday, February 14, 2010

While You Were Sleeping - Dear Leaders!!!

A day after the hoopla around a movie release was subsiding, another, long expected, operation was successfully accomplished. The terror operation. Unfortunately, the people, cops, who should have planned safeguards against such operations were busy protecting a movie release.


Mr. UT, the people's man, the leader of patriotic feelings of the nation, the voice of a state's people, had dispatched his goons to oppose the release of a movie because its lead actor had made some anti-national comments. Now,  the actor wished and commented to include Pakistani sportsmen in the IPL. How the hell could this be anti national? Although I am against inclusion of Paki players in the IPL, but the statement just leveraged his right to freedom of speech.


Here are some excerpts from news channels that exemplify the extent to which such, unnecessary, stupid and idiosyncratic protest affect the security infrastructure. In addition, such protests leave the doors open for the devil's prophets to conduct their logistical moves:


But at least 25% of Mumbai's police force is out guarding cinemas across the city. Over 1,500 Shiv Sainiks have already been put behind bars. The leave of all Mumbai police has been cancelled so that 63 theatres scheduled to show SRK's film can be protected.


The Mumbai Police has cancelled all leave for its men so that five companies of the State Reserve Police Force can guard the 63 theatres in the city that will screen the film from attacks by the Shiv Sena. Shah Rukh Khan's security has also been increased.


Just imagine if these cops were safeguarding the city and its borders from outside threats, may be they could have averted some evil logistical move. The move may have been related to the Pune blast. I don't have any data related to this, but it is a possibility.


By now, I am sure, the terrorist groups must have some set process to leverage the security loop holes created by various SENAS' political protests.


The most recent example relates to a movie. Some in the past related to language. Many around the country were regarding reservation, and a new state. A forthcoming protest, this year, was around the Valentines day, which may have been taken back due to the blast.


So, are these SENAS and morchas aiding the people or providing opportunities to the SENAS of our enemies? The guess or answer depends on you. I will conclude with another statement made by our respected sir UT.  I do not have any comments on it, but just leave it to you to judge whether the statement is justified or *&^%%*(*(*:


"It is because of the sins of the CM that nine innocent persons have lost their lives in the attack."


I don't want many Senas in the country, but just one - Bhartiya Sena.



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Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Crossroad



Standing on the crossroad, I have the option,

Whether to follow the wise or make my stand.

The wise have preached the safe path,

A road with security and what you expect,

To reach a place to make you a success in the society,

You will be inducted in the Wisest clan,

You shall earn all your materialistic earnings.

Taking un-tracked paths are satanic omens,

The reckless take the uncharted roads,

The reckless don't preach,

The reckless listen to their heart,

They follow the answers from within,

The road may end sooner,

The path may be endless,

I can never guess

But have the strength to predict,

To foretell adventures for the soul.

A spiritual awakening,

A road to redemption,

A path to life and not a trend.

Puzzles will be solved,

Difficulties overcome,

Dreams realized,

True happiness experienced.

But thou shalt be called reckless, rebel, selfish, dumb,

All for following thou's heart,

All for listening to thou's conscience,

All for being yourself,

All for what you want to be,

All depends on what I choose at the crossroad.

I just move and discover new crossroads,

The crossroads lead to new paths, new life, new experiences - the new ME.







Thursday, January 28, 2010

Thinking Like a Human

Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?

Henry David Thoreau

Observe the people around you or apply these questions to yourself. Are they/you perfect? Are they/you happy with the way they/you look? Do you think their/your race is better than others? Or, do they/you think their/your community is better than others’?

Well, when I pose these questions directly at you, I am sure your responses would be rationale. However, when answering for others, your responses will be more populist. That is:

  • Most people feel that they are better than others (close to perfect), hence continue to gripe about others’ decisions, appearance, clothing, or whatever they want to

  • Most people are not happy with their appearance. They may all wish to have looks like Tom Cruise or Marilyn Monroe, or whichever externally appealing individual they may know

  • Majority trust people from their own, race, community, or whatever link that originates from made-up and geographically co-incidental origins. Most races, communities, and religions in the world are a result of geographic incidences – thanks to the mother nature


If you are different enough to not comply with any of the three above points, tell me how do you achieve this.

On Human Nature and Beauty

We all are similar in most sense, but it is an inconvenient truth.

  • If you don’t like a person’s behavior in office, you go straight to your close associate and gripe. Even the person about whom you gripe, may moan your behavior with others.

  • If you are given a chance to see questions that will appear in your interview test, you are very likely to take a peep.


I can list many more instances wherein I could predict your behavior. However, such as we are, we believe we are different and moan about almost every aspect of our life; or, as a matter of fact - we gripe as long as we live.

When we decide our initial level of trust in another individual, here is the order in which we (human) are likely to set our preferences:

  1. Same color

  2. Same religion

  3. Same community

  4. Same region

  5. Same country


You may feel the order is wrong or discard the list as it gives a very critical scrutiny of the human nature. But, I bet it is very near to the truth.

You may differ on the order, but just sit back and do some soul searching – were you ever new to a place and were relieved to meet a person from your place of origin, religion, community, or race? We all seem to use these points, may be unconsciously, to set initial level of trust in new people we meet.

Let’s play a game in which you are allowed to keep the right answer to yourself and there are no prizes to be won (sorry to take out an incentive before the game starts.) Bonus: There are no buttons to click :-).

Question: If you win an Astin Martin in some stupid game show and are given a model that happens to be black, will you return it? Note that you cannot change the car color.

  1. a. Yes

  2. b. No


Now, you don’t need to give me any prize to guess your answer, which is – b.



Why didn’t the color influence your decision?

I guess it was because: how the hell can the color of an Aston Martin matter? An Aston Martin is an Astan Martin. Its mechanics, speed, looks, everything are a killer.  The difference between the engine, injection, piston, or whatever crap that goes inside all Aston Martins is basically – ZERO. So how can color matter? Darn the color. What say?

Yeah, you are right. Darn the color for a lifeless output of mechanics, which is produced and sold at a price that can support an entire city/town/village, which is facing serious humanitarian crisis like famine or the recent quake in Haiti.

Why does the color matter so much when it relates to human? We human, despite differences in skin appearance, are same from the inside. I am sure there is no need to get into the bio-demographic segmentation of humanity. The internal machinery that operates inside us is bloody similar. Just like an Aston Martin, even our machinery expires and experiences change in appearance with age.

An Aston Martin may satisfy the self esteem need of an individual, but is it worth the value of human lives - whose numbers may go in billions? Refer to Maslow’s hierarchy of needs to read about self esteem needs.

Consider us, human. Are we really beautiful? We look at a spider, toad, lizard, or a cockroach and may exclaim – YUCK.

Just for a moment imagine that these wonderful creatures can speak and think. Will they not exclaim – yuck or their version of DEMON on seeing us? If they make such statements, they are justified as most of human race is slowly turning filthy, destructive, and thoughtless and is living like creatures with no brains. We just follow what others do in the name of fashion, trend, or blindly follow marketing gimmicks.

Just another uncomfortable fact – we hold and emit more poo than any of these creatures may in their lives. So, who is filthier in real sense?

I am sure many animals call us DEMONS in their own mode of communication. Thankfully we have not yet decrypted their communication. Otherwise, poor fellows would have been under more human threat as they could have been caught calling names and curses. And that too cursing the most brainy and beautiful, yet destructive and divided, race of living thing on the plant.:-)

It is in human nature to show anything that originates from a different place to be asymmetric and hence ugly. For example, all alien artworks are slimy. We unconsciously see beauty comparatively. And, we compare it with ourselves, our race, community, country, religion, or whatever we can think of. Hardly any views are neutral.

One refreshing piece of art that deviates from the stereotype is the movie: Monster Inc. The movie starts off with a typical portrayal of monsters, which is they are scary and ugly. However, the movie ends with the message that love and happiness are very powerful and a living object that looks different from a particular race is also capable of making people smile. :-)

Dark is beautiful, small noses look cute, small eyes are a killer, small lips are pretty, brown is the bridge between white and black, and white glows when all fades. They are all beautiful in every sense. Don’t these lines justify the beauty of all ‘skin’ races? Then why the differences when logic easily advocates unity and love? Why does a market exist for fairness and other crappy creams?

On More Divisions – A case of Indian Unity/Diversity

The easiest way to get close to someone is to moan about an individual who, coincidentally, may be hated by you and the person with whom you talk. In other words, you can easily get close to someone by griping about an individual who is an object of your common hatred. You will have exceptions when an individual may be against back-biting against others. However, in most cases, you will succeed. In addition, while assessing people, we tend to overlook their positive behavior and concentrate on their shortfalls. This tendency to overlook the positive, or nice behavior, is one of the most exploited and vulnerable human weaknesses.

As I said before, unconsciously, we tend to let our perspectives be driven by a person’s ethnicity, religion, or race. So, will this be left unexploited when someone wants you on their side? Surely not. From politicians and terrorists to marketers, all look to exploit this weakness at a grand level, and your friends or associates at a lower level. Your friends or associates’ influence may cause you to hate an individual or community, but even their rationale will be, in some way, inspired from a leader – the leader may be a politician, goon, terror marketer, or some historic personality.

For example, let’s consider the differences in the Indian Social setup. The traditional setup of the Indian society encouraged division of work based on a person’s family and sect.  The society was divided into three main sections:

  1. Kshatriyas, rulers entrusted with the responsibility to govern the society

  2. Bramhins, responsible to oversee the religious rituals and worshiping

  3. Shudras, maintain hygiene and maintenance of the environment


The aim of such a system was to let the society function smoothly. With all due respect to the creators of the system and without doubting their intentions, I opine that they overlooked the human weakness to look down on others. I hope that the creators had learned Edward De Bono’s six thinking hats, or psychology, so that they could have used the hats to analyze the, possible, negative impacts of the system. J But unfortunately, they didn’t have such scientific tools of decision making. Everything was driven by gut, myth, and the decision makers’ will to safeguard themselves and their community. Consequently, we had the Shudra being oppressed by the Bramhins and Kshatriyas for centuries.

Refer to the Human Map below. It depicts the segregation of the Indian society into innumerable divisions. It may be humanly and timely impossible for a working class person like me to give a detailed map of differences. However, the image below surely gives a glimpse at the microscopic level of the way our society is divided. If you think this map is cluttered, just imagine the mess in a diagram that maps the  world's communities and races?


The marketers and politicos exploit the human tendency to focus on the differences and cons of other communities or races. As you may  perceive from the diagram, they have innumerable target points to divide us and benefit from our weakness.

There may be innumerable vulnerable points, but the solitary and most powerful unifying theme – humanity.


The first religion we should follow and preach is humanity. All religions are derived from humanity. However, over the years, they may have been tweaked by few people for their self interest.  There have been true prophets of religions.

However, few may have been corrupt. It is these corrupt individuals who have tweaked religions to serve their self interest. So, will it not make sense to practice humanity rather than follow someone else’s word? I don’t advocate dropping your present practices. But, I do advocate critically reviewing them and following only those that are in sync with nature, humanity, and betterment of the world. For instance, it is a Hindu practice to disperse holy stuff, used in worship, in water. I have stopped my family from doing it as this practice pollutes water. The most recent examples of tweaking religion and race are terrorism, reservation in various organizations or institutions, etc. So, like you do in money matters, use your grey matter and conscience.

Never say no to your conscience. It always shows you the right path. You just need to wait, take a deep breath, smile, and listen…

Disclaimer: The post does not aim to demean any religion, race, or community. My apologies if it does and do let me know if you feel that any part of the post demeans any sect.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

(So Called) Leaders in Our Society

He stands on the road corner, imprinted on a paper, larger than a humble building. He points his fingers somewhere. But where? I see, it's nowhere - that's where our present leaders are leading us to. Now I see them on all road corners. Promoting god's festivities, donating to poor, feeding the hungry, igniting religion, and yes --> dividing the society. Donations and food can be seen only on the oversized imprints. The land of nowhere only contains division.